Ever Had A First Kiss?

I used to feel that way(like, 2 months ago.). But, given my hopeful career and the way I wish to work and live, marrying would ruin everything. And besides, the fears I bear are greater to me than the happiness I -might- have possibly had. I hope to God I don’t change my mind. It would not be right for the way I want my life to be. I fear all the time that I might meet someone “special” and get a certain feeling and they might ask me. I hope not, though, and quite honestly, I’m not a very cute girl. So hopefully I won’t ever be in a position to make that decision, and my life will run relatively smoothly. Besides, I’m kind of weird. Anyone who would feel that way for me–I mean the ultimate true love—is pretty screwed up.

^ There’s someone out there for everyone, and really you don’t seem weird to me! But if you don’t want to get married it’s your choice :smiley: But maybe if you do meet someone you’ll change your mind cause they’ll mean more to you, and it’ll all be worth it. I guess you’ll find out someday :smiley:

Yeah, it’s all your choice but I don’t think you should totally shut the idea out of your mind. You don’t even have to get married either, you could just have a real serious realtionship so you aren’t tied-down so much. I’m not very cute either but you know an advantage to that? It means that when a guy is interested in me I’ll know he’s in it for who I am and not how I look. Personality means so much to me so if I can find a guy with an amazing personality then I’m sure I’ll find him cute either way. :slight_smile:

Yeah, I know what you guys mean. But I need to meet someone who makes me desire marriage, not desire marriage so much that I’ll just marry anyone. I honestly think that with how I want my life to work, me marrying would be catastrophic. But, if I do, then hopefully I’ll be happy. And he’ll be blonde. :stuck_out_tongue: 8D

I hope to get my first kiss on the lips in years some time this year.

LOL! I’ve got my mother’s taste in men; clean shaven and dark-haired. Haha, it’s not a must-have but I just don’t tend to be drawn as easily to blondies. :stuck_out_tongue:

Okay. I tried hard to ignore this thread. But as I keep seeing it here and there I’ll answer.

My answer to the tread topic:

NO!

S 330: Hope to have one some day?

Aw well. One day I’m sure. As I am obviously fast approaching the mental age where I find girls cute, I’m sure I will want to get a girlfriend, get married and raise a family. Of course the first kiss would come somewhere before marriage.

Really? I find that most girls prefer guys with dark hair. Honestly, I find that bizarre. 8D I just want to be with someone who is blonde so bad. It’s stupid, and illogical, but that’s the human heart for you.

It happens.

What happens?

What was mentioned in the thread above me.

What? You were kissed?

ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!

It’s just there is a point in time when we do start finding the opposite gender appealing. And it is an unexplained operation.

Oh, okay. :slight_smile: 8D think I started feeling that way in 7th grade.

mumbles and it hit me this past year.

Sorry :confused:

That’s okay. I’m the idiot who posted here after I knew what was in store for me :unamused:

What do you eman? I think most people here are pretty accepting. Heck, my “first kiss” was a prank played on me.