what is your perfect Boy/Girl

Well then welcome back :slight_smile:

x3haijessiex3

Iā€™m sorry to hear you and your boyfriend have split up. I know we just talked about him a couple days ago. It is great that you too are still friends, though! From the way you described the situation, I think you two will be better of as best friends.

So, you kind of like someone on Pixar Planet? Ooh. We may our have the third PP relationship soon.

I hope so. :blush: I just wish I could tell him.

Hey, there is a really good chance he knows already just from your clues in these posts.

Maybe :neutral_face:

That is, if he read these posts. I donā€™t think he has.

You know when you really like some one its very hard to say goodbyeā€¦ Even if you hate there guts its still hardā€¦

Iā€™m sorry to hear that this has happened to you.

yeah 2 years agoā€¦ then my friend got shotā€¦ b4 that my Granddad died too

My grandpa died a few months ago too. I had a friend who loved me once. We inseparable. Then her boyfriend came. Bye best friend.

Iā€™m sorry for your losses. :cry:

Thanksā€¦ it wasnt a good year for meā€¦
and i am sorry for your lossesā€¦

Actually for me itā€™s been almost a year since my friend left.

Life is rough isnā€™t it? You get cut down but you just got to get back up there and keep goingā€¦

It seems like yesterday since I thought I couldnā€™t go a day without her and when September comes along, it will be one year. Next month is her birthday.

Slowly, Iā€™m getting over her. Sheā€™s pretty much becoming a failure anyway.

Iā€™m almost over her. Not a day goes by that I donā€™t think about her though. I donā€™t think that will ever go away. The old her is in my memories. Thatā€™s all that matters.

Very well put :slight_smile:

My advice to you, is to let go. Itā€™s hard. But do it. I know itā€™s hard. I know. Itā€™s hard for everyone who loses someone. But you need to know that there are so many new people in the world that you havenā€™t even met yet. You need to know that time changes everything. But time also heals. It really does. It doesnā€™t seem like it at first but look, to get your rainbow, what do you have to do? Put up with the horrible heart ripping rain.

Everyone will hit that one point in their lives. Some havenā€™t had that happen, but it will. Itā€™s a really scary place. Itā€™s a place that is as deep as infinity but only if you let it be that deep.

There is no one else in charge of your life except for yourself. Think of it like a mirror. Walk into a mirror, slowly, with your eyes open. When you touch it, what do you see? You. You will never get to that other side with you in your way. So what do you do? You break the mirror and open the door behind it.

I donā€™t know how else to tell you. But this worked for me. No, I didnā€™t break a mirror. But I imagined it. Iā€™m halfway out.

Wow, Jessie, very well written. I would be in tears right now if I were the kind of person that cried a lot. Very emotional!

I dont know if i want to cry or clapā€¦ beautifully put and yeah i have let go some but its tough to do so.

Iā€™m sorry for your losses, mopar3 and x3haijessiex3. And x3haijessiex3, those are some beautiful words, right there.

For me, she has to be kind, above all other factors. Intelligence and good humour would be second in priority. Followed by shared interests, and then looks, which would be an added bonus. Religion, race or nationality donā€™t really matter, as long as she loves me for who I am.

But yes, good principles and strong character are the most important things that would matter to me in a girl.

Oh my, this is a sensitive topic I would say, especially now with all these heart breaking storiesā€¦ :cry:

Well, my girl would definitely have to be strong in the same faith as me, she would need to be very intelligent, loving, modest, responsible, submitting, and of course, beautiful in every way. I, on the other hand, would have to be loving and supportive, and it would then counterbalance.

The best part is that I think Iā€™ve already found her, I just donā€™t think she knows it yet. :blush: <3

Aww, yay! Congrats!