I am still currently single atm…
I said “I don’t like you that way, but we can still talk, and you’re still welcome to my birthday party.” He kept on, but now he says he’s dating some Alyssa person…I hope they get married and move to Canada!! They’re too young, but I do hope he leaves me alone now.
I’ve always been single, and it’s even more embarrassing because I’m 21 (going to 22). Sometimes I don’t care about it because I’m occupied with other things, and other times it can get a bit lonely especially since most of my friends have boyfriends now. =\
Danachii, I think being single can be something to be proud of. I mean, in my useless opinion, most failed marriages are based on idiots meeting, “liking” each other, getting hitched, then realizing they just rushed/wasted their lives. Wait for love, don’t look for someone and settle. He’s still texting me like crazy…
IncredigirlVirginia - Ahh yeah, you’re right about that. I don’t know though. Sometimes I still can’t help but feel a bit lonely. =(
I’ve had the same problem for quite a while Danachii… I’m quite much of a loner while I don’t even want to be, I craved for social interaction and love. Now I finally have it, but… I still don’t. It’s hard to explain.
It’s not a problem that can’t be solved over time though. The foundation is there, now all I need to do is to start building. What am I building, you ask? Why, a bridge, of course!
If you don’t know what I’m talking about, I guess you will if you’re still hanging around this forum in a few years. Let’s just say it involves me and a ‘green card’.
I know what you mean, Danachii, but even as someone who has been in long-term relationships in the past, I much prefer being single. Doing what you want when you want, not having to plan your schedule around someone else, not having to compromise…I know there’s lots of good things about being in a relationship, but the independence of being single is so much fun! It might just be because I’m an only child and hence have always had things my own way, but really, the freedom is great so make the most of it.
Well, my short period of relief is over. He’s not going to date his friend, and he’s sending me tons of PMs on Face Book Virginia is not happy.
Take my advice. Speak to him directly about harrassment, and if he refuses to listen, inform a parent or teacher and ‘unfriend’ him from FB. Sometimes we blokes don’t get the message, so you have to make it more obvious to us.
I’m dating. And I’m probably one of the only people at my school who treats it like it’s serious business. My boyfriend and I have dated about three years now, out of the seven or eight years that we’ve known each other. Yes, we have our moments where we have little debates, but then they transform into silliness O_O .
I agree with thedriveintheatre, IncredigirlVirginia, unfriend him on Facebook so at least he won’t be able to continue bothering you on there.
Aww, that’s cool that you’re in a long term relationship, Esmedes. Seems like so few people make it that far nowadays!
The best relationships come from friendships.
Indeed. Sometimes, I STILL feel like he’s my male best friend, even though he’s still my boyfriend. And I did have a bit of a crush on him at least the first three years I knew him X3
Developed a crush on my best guy friend. -_- I’m pretty sure that’s the worst way to fall in love, and the worst person to fall in love with.
I currently envy Ellie Fredrickson
Thanks, TDIT and LG!! Will do. Good news: he can’t come to my birthday party whuch he invited himself to!!
I can’t get any boys I know to want to do anything with me, let alone girls.
So yes, I’m single.
I’m very much single, and very much proud of it. Of course I’m only fourteen, so I believe I’m to young to be dating in the first place. That plus the fact that all the guys in my grade are either annoying as heck or on drugs, I’m pretty sure I’m gonna remain this way for a looong time.
he can’t come to my birthday party whuch he invited himself to!!
How arrogant of him, you don’t ‘invite yourself’ to a party… you get ‘invited’! Maybe you should employ bouncers just to be sure.
That plus the fact that all the guys in my grade are either annoying as heck or on drugs
Oh dear, that’s why I’m thankful to have lived in Singapore and Malaysia… the drug penalties are pretty severe though. You get sentenced to death if you distribute or sell drugs above a certain amount, and jailtime if you get caught in posession of any! America has an entire agency taskforce (the DEA) just to control substance abuse alone and it’s still being sold to kids in schools!
Yeah, only losers who9 can’t get invited to any parties invite themselves. I think it’s pretty low, but I’m the one who was taught manners. Good for you, Esmedes!!
I’m single because I’m too young. And I don’t want to get married. If I get lonely, I’ll get a pet.