Thank you, Snipe. That’s why I love you guys here, you see people, not nuisances.
I am single and proud of it. I can honestly say that I have never had a boyfriend, never been kissed, and still be okay by myself.
I dunno. The thought of dating (or even getting married) sounds pretty scary for me. That’s probably not very normal for a girl my age, but hey - I honestly don’t really care all that much if I have a guy in my life or not. Most girls my age (and younger, for Petey’s sake!) have already had a boyfriend and it usually resulted in some messy break-up. That’s why I’ve never really given a crap for relationships.
DoE, I’ve never been kissed either. Well, once this boy Cameron kissed me, while another boy taped it as a prank.
I adore the thought of marriage. If you can’t tell, I love the idea of marriage. Courtship, no. Love, oh yes. I just need someone as strange, passionate, and mature as me. Everyone I know now act like five year olds. Very disappointing.
No problem, Virginia.
Well, it’s not that I wouldn’t want to get married someday… when it happens, I’ll be ready. But the thought of it now is kinda daunting. But God knows when I’m ready, and when it’s time, He’s going to send me that one special someone.
I don’t have anything against love, either. What bothers me is when young kids who shouldn’t even be “dating” are together… It’s just… at that point, they’re better off just being friends. When I was that age, I didn’t even know what dating was! Just sayin’.
I’ve only had 3 “boy friends”, and only two in real life, and I was extremely bored by it. I think if you’re not ready to marry, there’s really no point in courtship. Online is cute to me, but not where the person can…touch me. I’m not hot on that.
Wow, you and me both (minus the boyfriend part).
But, like you said, Virginia, I don’t see the point of a relationship if it’s just puppy love. A relationship is actually alot of work, and if you’re too immature to take on that responsibility, you’re going to end up in a tragic break-up. I’ve seen it happen before, and it’s really lame. I don’t think most teens realize that it’s not all fun and games. There is alot of work involved, and you have to be very careful of how much of your heart you give away to the other person, because if you break up, then that person forever has that part of your heart in their hands.
^Just a tip of advice for you guys.
I’ve never had a boyfriend, but as of late, I don’t really want one. My best friend is going through a lot of bad stuff with her boyfriend now. And besides, if you ask me, it’s all just drama. When I meet the right guy, I’ll know. Until them, I’m fine being single
Yay! I’m not the only one who doesn’t mind being single then!! And also, same here about finding the right guy. God’s gonna let me know.
Evil_Genius_27, with that philosophy, you should live a happy life with one man.
I’m glad you guys are like that. I can’t stand people that are ashamed of being alone. Sometimes I wonder if I deserve it, but this isn’t the 1400s. You’re not going to die alone if you’re not married by 12.
I’ll be honest, I perfer being single and able to flirt and be free, party, (and did I say flirt?) with guys! I hate the feeling of being restriced to a man, that’s why I like casual dating with different guys better! I haven’t met one that I want to be dating seriously yet. I’m going to live my life first,man. I don’t need a guy to make me complete until I’m like in my thirties.
Virginia: Don’t say things like that, it make me sad! Because you’re such a great person, and that’s what truly matters. If a guy sees you and thinks “ugly” than he’s not worth it anyway, not a good spirit. When a man looks inside you for you, it’s Bingo!
You sound like Elastigirl in your first paragraph!! The irony kills me.
Thank you, that’s really nice of you. I mostly mean personality, though. I have physical…traits(I do not mean that in a concieted, offensive way) to offer the opposite gender, I’m not “ugly”, I just have a loud personality, and guys usually aren’t interested. Thanks, though, that really does make me feel better.
I just got back from Disney World last night, and on Friday night, since Caitlin’s birthday is on the 29th of September, I bought her a necklace that I’m gonna send to her.
BaW, that’s so sweet!! I hope she loves it.
Yeah, so do I.
That’s great, Buzz&Woodyforever!
I wish boys around here were that considerate and loving. You deserve Caitlin, whether she sees it or not.
Yeah. I’m gonna tell her how I feel about her someday, I just don’t how I’m gonna do that. I was thinking to wait until the last week before prom in high school (several years from now), enroll myself at her school, and ask to go to the prom with me. Although, would I even be able to enroll at a high school that late in the school year?
Only if you move to that zone, unless you’re home schooled. If you’re HS’d, then no.
Eh, well the odds of me moving down there are really slim, so idk.