well that’s certainly interesting:
However, while I’m precisely here to seek answers to that question (which means I don’t have as of yet a true opinion), I find several point to argue on with you, halos:
-Indeed what you are mentionning has been present in us since our dawn as a species (very much like any animal species, mind you), however aren’t we supposed to also reason due to our superior intellect? when we calmly analize and cultivate feelings for someone, I believe this can go beyond natural reflexes.
My point: some humans are, by one way or another, sterile. Others simply have no yearning to have children. Does that make them uncapable of feelings and ultimately, of sustaining a relationship? as such, I believe we move beyond our initial design of maintaining our species (especially given the fact that we are suffering no population shortage or predatory dangers: take ants for instance)
Then there’s the question of mating. However, I believe even the significance of this act can greatly vary given the individuals: I’ve seen examples where some people had problems with the idea (e.g: victims of traumatizing experiences in childhood, some of them involving rape), yet they still could form that symbiotic relationship. Quite curious, isn’t it?
Of course due to our variety as a collective, I believe love can have lots of meanings (for some it’ll be passion (sexualy oriented), for others it’ll be admiration, etc…), which I suppose is why my question will probably not be answered for quite a while: even though I truly hope some people realize the valour of such a curious and atypical relationship: I’m sure we could grow quite a lot on that.
However, I’ll be truly interesting in the idea of a debate: Perhaps it might bring new elements to me and explain and prevent that strange nostalgia pain felt during that film.
I thank you both for your answers and welcome.