I’m sorry bits&pieces, I’m confused. Are you upset at IV’s comment that Toy Story 3 had forced emotions, or are you agreeing with her and acting with surprise that TS3 had such a high rank?
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Anyway, I felt that the last playtime with Andy was more powerful than the incinerator scene (if only because I had a tiny bet of skepticism in the back of my mind that the Pixarians would kill off the toys that easy).
I could actually think of several scenes from other recent movies that brought me closer to tears than the incinerator scene - the ending of HTTYD, Nigel telling Nemo of his dad’s quest to save him, the beginning of the third act of Rango with the soaring music and Rango’s grim determination against all odds, h*ll, even Lightning’s act of redemption in Cars (yes, I cried when Lightning pushed the King across the finish line; it’s cheesy, but I was incredibly touched).
When I saw the incinerator scene, I knew this wouldn’t be the end, and I was sort of waiting expectantly for the (literal) deus-ex machina to swoop in. I didn’t cry at ‘The Last Playtime’, but was strangely peaceful and melancholic instead. I accepted the ending as an inevitable ‘fact-of-life’ much like Woody did, I wasn’t heartbroken or tear-jerked or anything.
Whereas with films like HTTYD or Gladiator or Dragonheart or Saving Private Ryan which had bittersweet endings, there was an ‘unfair’ element to it, that the hero didn’t deserve the outcome, but he nobly and stoically accepts it. This measure of self-sacrifice is what gets my tears flowing.
TS3, like Up, is about the ‘stages of life’. Saying goodbye to friends and family members is inevitable. I guess I’m less possessive of things and I believe in the Zen/Buddhist theme of ‘impermanence’, so I’m more willing to accept these inevitabilities. It’s not that I wish these things to happen, of course, if we kept our friends and family as long as we wanted to, that’s a great outcome, but I don’t really find it heartbreaking or awful or anything if we have to let go. Things happen. What we remember best are the memories and experiences we had together. Woody had to learn that, and I wondered why he had to take so long to figure it out.
Just my thoughts. E.T.'s win was well-deserved.