I also write about females and I do know why.
And when has she been drawn? I would like to see her.
That’s really admirable! I think it’s a fun challenge to get in the head of someone that isn’t exactly who I am, like someone old or really young, or from a completely different region. It gets the creative juices flowing.
Interesting subject you brought up! I guess you can call me religious, I was raised with a religion and I go to Youth group. I appriciate teh Bible and I believe in a God/Spirit.
But I honestly don’t see anything wrong with intercourse before marriage either.
I don’t have a problem with one night stands, but that’s something I personally wouldn’t do.
I feel like a real prude here. 
I’ve never been asked, but I wouldn’t even kiss a guy until like, the 7th date. I wouldn’t open my legs until after the wedding ceremony, because I believe the person who marries you deserves that, if nothing else. I guess I’m just a romantic sap for having so much respect for someone I have yet to meet. I just…when I get married, I want to be the best I can be in every way. I don’t want to be used property, if that makes sense. I want what we have to be special and untouchable, not tainted and involving of other people from the past. That idea sickens me. 
^ Same here. Exactly the same.
I feel like whoever I’m going to marry deserves me and no one else. And when other people are doing that… it’s their choice, but I’m saving myself. I have so many problems at these high school dances, cause people aren’t exactly what you would call chaste. I don’t want any part of it. I mean I’d kiss a guy if I’m dating them, but nothing more. I’m better than to be treated like that, and I’d want someone to have waited for me, too. Maybe it’s just all the religion in me, but I’m waiting.
You know, it’s not necessarily a religious thing, you’re actually giving an ethical explanation. So it’s something you believe on and you should grasp yourself to it.
I agree there is a difference between ethics and religion although both can influence the other, and I’m glad that you two are happy with your religion and your ethics.
(I know know how to rewirte that sentence, it looks like I’m being sarcastic. But I assure you, I’m not being sarcastic!)
Mine is sort of my religion, but also just because I believe that would be a poor choice. Pregnancy, diseases, yeah. I’m waiting. 
I’m glad there’s still some people out there like you. Let me see, since High School started I’ve had 4 friends (I feel like there’s more) get pregant and have children. But luckily my old High School has a satillite high school for problem kids and it has a terrific Teen Parent Center, so the children can get cared for while the mothers go to school and get their diplomas, which I think is important)
I’m a Freshman in college, and my best friend from elementery school just had a baby, and a girl I graduated with is pregnant! Not for me, I want to enjoy my twenties, and before I have to settle down!
Staying out of the entire biological game period is socially unacceptable for some reason. It’s kind of infuriating.
I get tired of so many people saying I’m wrong for believing what I believe. I’m not trying to shove my agenda down their throat . But most think I’m just a narrow-minded prude who needs experience before he can make a judgment call.
I guess the thing I can best associate it with is being a vegan. Most people vegans talk to seem to be under the impression that they’re taking things just a bit too far and one day some grand epiphany will come and they’ll be just like everyone else ingesting animal products at their leisure.
I say vegan, because like my option it’s also a choice that supposedly goes against the “biological imperative” that was laid down in our genetic code.
I hope Q doesn’t bust on me for this one.
Reallly? I know lots of people with no intention to get married, and a few who don’t want to have children or be in relationships. I guess it’s pretty normal where I come from. Well, not normal, but acceptable. I think people should do what ever is right for them, one path isn’t the best for all.
Oh, I want relationships. I just don’t want the, er, well the thing. I’ve been told to many times that I’m trying to have it both ways. It’s awkward. But I think I’ve already exhausted this part of the conversation a few weeks ago when I accidentally killed the entire thread last time I brought it up.
Kaykay, I understand! It may be culturally taboo, but people should still accept you for who you are, we’re all different! (thank goodness, I’d hate for there to be two of me!)
My perfect guy/girl would be well… Either Gothic or Emo (I somewhat feel ashamed to say I’m bisexual on a forum) . I’m weird I know. Anyways, my perfect girl would be a gamer (like me), like most of the things I do, I guess you could say my perfect girl would be my other half if you get that figure of speech.
Don’t be ashamed, ArtsBoi!! You’re welcome here. Anyone who says otherwise should be ashamed. 
EJE: Yeah. My HS has the highest pregnancy rate in the county. 
You have nothing to be ashamed of my friend.
Yeah, nothing to be ashamed of at all. I’ve recently become aware that I’m a bit of a panromantic myself. The Internet makes you aware of strange things that you might not have otherwise known about yourself.
I dentify as pansexual myself generally. It’s mostly about the person, and in the end while I guess like a lot of people I might have certain factors I may look into, gender doesn’t really come into it.
Granted by pure statistical chance a guy is more likely to happen than anything else if I do find someone to spend the rest of my life with.
Plus I’m not sure how fair it would be if I was with a girl. I’m not ‘out’ yet to people I’m genetically related to- only my friends know. It might weird my flatmates out to know I’m not out in this sense to my parents and extended family- I came out to -them- on my first night. But they just have those kind of personalities. I kind of love my flatmates (not like that… lol), they’re kind of from all over the world though so when I left them again today I just realised how much I missed them after them being away so long. (The closest in terms of distance are from the South Ireland or England, the furthest Tanzania, Pakistan and China… that could mean… meeting up after this all ends will be immensly difficult or more or less impossible 
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Thank you and everyone else for their support, I’m glad to know no one has a problem with bisexual men, unlike most people I know irl.
It makes no difference to me waht you are, ArtsBoi! We’re all people, anyway, it shouldn’t make a difference to anyone.