I like someone like that…but he moved on. I’ve been replaced.
I understand where you’re coming from Leirin. Though I’ve always been in love with the concept of love, I really don’t like the messy details that come with it.
I honestly feel like I’m the only person I know who isn’t interested in the mambo but isn’t asexual. Of course that kinda gets me blasted on both sides, because those who aren’t say that I’m depriving myself of an essential part of life while those who are are say that I’m completely screwed up in the head and need help. Talk about a rock and a hard place.
It just seems like things would be better if could bypass all the nonsense and just focus on platonic relationships. But my mind won’t seem to let me.
Are you talking about celibacy? I’m waiting until I get married, but after that, I think I would go nuts. I mean, even as a girl, even one who’s never had those feelings, it’s part of life. It’s something worth waiting for. I’m very confused…
Basically. Don’t I don’t really describe myself that way because according to everything I’ve read I don’t really fit the necessary requirements.
But I just sorta fail to see the point of the whole thing. It just seems so, well, not worth it. I actually hate the fact that it basically defines life. I know that it’s part of the entire fabric of the human experience. But I’d like to think that we’ve progressed to the point where it’s no longer the end-all be-all of existence.
I don’t think it should dominate your life, because then, we’d all be sex addicts. Even we virgins. I just think it seems very important between married people(and hopefully, less unmarried couples 
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I don’t think it should dominate your life, because then, we’d all be sex addicts. Even we virgins. I just think it seems very important between married people(and hopefully, less unmarried couples ). It seems like an important part of the relationship.
Wow. Sorry guys. I really killed this thread. All that’s missing is a Socially Awkward Penguin.
It won’t happen again. I promise.
I know you’re gonna feel like that now, aerostarmonk, but honestly, it will get better. You do have to work on it though, and I’m not going to lie, it’s not an easy journey, but I would say that the reward is most definitely worth it. Just think like this, every rejection is another lesson learned, and you’ll be more prepared the next time.
Speaking of penguins, what the heck does it mean if a girl sends you the penguin smiley on Facebook chat?
Wow, i feel the same way. All this complication about it, it’s like you have to be perfect or dull. Not in between. And whenever i try to, everybody has to make a big deal out of it when i do, like it’s completely insanity for someone to try to get out of that single scene! And, i always seem to work well on my own, when i’m on my own. Not that i kill myself for it, i’m, as you can say, used to it.
notice the name, somethingguy? With me, I AM SOMETHING!!!
I’m pretty much in difficulties I think in some ways myself. I’m not religious at all and don’t think I have to wait until marriage but I can’t have one night stands or do things with people I barely even know (even kissing). I’ve done it sure (well the kissing anyway not the one-night stands), but I’m not sure it’s me and I’m not sure I care for it anymore in any case. Several of my friends are in long term relationships (one now married), but they generally MET through random kisses at a nightclub with the first guy they saw and got lucky and got in a long-term deal as a result. But I can’t do that sort of thing anymore, and I generally realise now I need to know someone before that sort of thing happens to get much out of it. But then there’s of course the danger of ‘wrecking’ a friendship as well plus I don’t always ever cross that mental line anyway- sometimes things can change, sometimes they can’t plus of course there’s the chance they wouldn’t feel the same way anyway, just because I have feelings for someone doesn’t mean they automatically will or vice-versa, nor should either party feel oblidged to. Basically my perfect partner is someone I would also be a friend with in retrospect thogh. Which is kind of frustrating probably for people as well as myself though espeically in this day in age where it’s everything or nothing. Plus being set up by people is the most awkward thing ever.
But yeah, there’s nothing I can really put my finger on with regards want makes someone ‘just’ a friend or a potential partner in any case. I guess it would be loyalty as well as experience would be also attractive in some form, but generally yeah, someone who is someone I know I could be friends with and who isn’t with anyone/ screws half the country and well… I’m attracted to in that way and does the same for me. I’m not sure why this is so difficult. But then maybe I should join clubs which don’t involve disco beats. (Once I’m not so busy anyway, maybe when February starts I’ll look into it more…).
I actually did sign up for things at my uni but didn’t attend so maybe I should change that- though IDK, is going to such things with the mild and distant hope of scoping out a potential partner weird? I mean people do join them to make friends and that’s much more likely to happen anyhow but… yeah.
My boyfriend is close to my “perfect” or ideal guy: he has a similar sense of humor, he’s very sensitive to others, he likes cutesy things and acting cute (100% serious all the time = not for me), he’s interested in some of the same movies (we sort of bonded over anime and Ghibli movies) and TV shows, we have similar enough taste in music to go to free shows on campus together, and as a bonus, he’s a vegan. We bake a lot together and hand out stuff to people who live in our hall. It’s so cute.
Wow, he sounds like the male equivelant of you. That must be nice. 
Well, I’ve already said what i would like, but at this point, I almost never think about stuff like that, so…yeah. 
^ It’s nice to have an equivalent.
I have a female equivalent, two if you count my sister.
Do you have one?
No. Well, actually, Woody from TS is exactly like me in every way, except I’m a girl, and…not a doll. Is that weird? I have brown hair, brown eyes, I love to be in charge, and I gewt very jealous. Woody’s just like me!!
Haha. Well, I meant real people, not fictional 
Then no. 
Or, if I do, I have not met him. As far as I know.
I had to create my equivalent. Otherwise, nope don’t really have any. And most of those that would come close are taken or live waaaay to far away.
How did you create one?
She’s fictional. I’m writing about her. And she’s been drawn more than a couple of times. So it all works out.
I tend to write more females than males for some reason. I don’t know why. And no they aren’t a bunch of equivalents or infallible Susies.