I agree 100% with you. And yea, it is a huge risk to have a procedure like that done. You have to be positive about not wanting kids.
But if you’re a woman, you have to be 27 and or have 3 kids. So it’s easier for the guy to do it.
Of course, there’s a much simpler way than an operation, but that’s an individual choice.
I suppose you refer to not marrying at all. I don’t think I could do that at this time. I feel like I AM going to be married.
I hope to one day. I wouldn’t mind staying single, though. But I really want to be loved by a guy, romantically. For some reason, lately especially, I’ve really been craving that attention from the opposite birds and the bees. But, I’m content to wait for the right man 
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I’m the same. I want to have fun and enjoy myself and spend money on myself before I ruin with a kid! 
I’m being a bit melodramatic. But yeah, I want time for myself before I have inklings.
^In total and complete agreement. Enjoy life while you’re young ;-0 
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Honestly, the idea of romance per se makes my skin crawl. Like I really don’t want a guy going all gooey on me(well, that happens some times) because it makes me feel sick. It just makes me self conscious and makes my skin crawl. Especially after a fight I had with a certain person(guess) and now it disgusts me even more.
^I’m so glad to finally find someone who agrees with me about this.
I think extraordinary levels of self-consciousness do strongly have to do with it, but I don’t want to be in a physical romantic relationship, EVER. It is not a matter of being “too young to understand” or “immature”. It’s that I can’t ever see myself like that, and I don’t want to either. It makes me feel ill and strange.
I totally understand. But honestly, the S word doesn’t scare me in the least. I’m waiting for marriage, but the possibility of myself doing such a thing eventually seems less and less remote, and less disgusting. It’s just, when a he says “You’re beautiful” or “I love you” it disgusts me. The physical aspect doesn’t bother me so much anymore, but the mushy disgustingness is intolerable. I hope I can avoid it. 
Well, I agree with that too.
We have a lot in common.
I’m glad I’m not the only one! I have a couple friends, and they’re talking about marriage and kids with their boyfriends. And I’m like, you’re sophomores in college! You have your whole life ahead of you, what is this?
Whatever floats their boats.
If it was up to me, I would rather get married as fast as possible(after high school, maybe after college) to get the whole wedding thing out of the way. But I never want children, and I hope if I get married, said person doesn’t want kids, because that would likely cause a divorce.
I wasn’t referring to that, though that could also work.
What did you mean? You can PM me.
I think he may be referring to the option of abstinence or other pregnancy preventing options. I would never request my husband to be sterilized or anything unless I knew 100% that I didn’t want anymore children or if he personally wanted to do it. I wouldn’t want to undergo any operations like that myself just for the sake of my already bad enough fear of hospitals and not wanting to put my body through that unless totally necessary.
As for the topic of children, ideally I would like to have one boy and one girl. I would like to have at least two children because I grew up with a sibling and I do not want to have an only child. Nothing against anyone who is, I have been an only child but have also grown up with a sibling, so from personal experience I would like my children to have siblings. The only reason I would go for a third child is if I had two of the same gender or if my husband wanted to and/or I knew I would be capable of raising them. I wouldn’t go for any more than that though.
Having a sibling is a comfort, even though not everyone appreciates it.
I’m glad you think so too, Miss Carrera.
I love my brother and sisters!! I remember being an only child. But, my brother is much easier to get on with than my sisters.
When is it that you became a sister? I’m the oldest too. Well, technically not, but I disowned him, so I’m the oldest.