Yeah, for a second there I thought you meant literally murdering them… 
IV, is right. I’ve learned it the hard way, but you really should just let people know what you are feeling. I understand and sympathize with people who get nervous about it, I’m like that, but being too nervous and overly cautious can be just as bad, because than you might miss out on something. I think it’s best to just have confidence in yourself, and go for it.
Though I have to say, for the guys, it can be very hard to know exactly what girls are thinking…
No. I say “kill” all the time, but I just mean severely maim. Kidding!! Leave, resent, fine. Killing’s against my religion. Talk about a HyppoChristian!! 
I agree with everything there, but I hope you guys aren’t thinking about what I said before.
In fact I never get nervous around girls (I’m not allowed, since basically, all I know is girls). I’m very talkative to girls. If I haven’t tell anyone my feelings is because I don’t have any 
Which is why girls should just say “I like you” or “I don’t like you”. 
And thanks for agreeing with me. 
I’m overly confident, so I don’t understand nervous or bashful feelings. I know, that’s bad. Sorry.
Haha, oh, I wholeheartedly agree. I’ve blown things with girls solely based on my cluelessness about them. That, and assuming they don’t like me and being nervous.
That’s not a bad thing at all! It’s an awesome thing, everyone should be that confident in themselves.
No, I was just saying that as general advice for everyone.
I just meant at all. Being a Shy Violet gets you nowhere!!!
Anyone here think there is such a thing as love at first sight?
I think you can be attracted at first sight, but the emotion, not the physical side, takes time.
^ Hear, hear.
By the way, today Bar Refaeli is topping my list. She does that every then and now.
She is very cute(for a chick) but she needs more clothing. Seriously.
Hmmm, guess it is just something only for the movies.
SoA: LOVE the new sig and avatar
I agree with this. 
I don’t think there’s such a thing as love at first sight, only lust at first sight.
Exactly!! However, I believe you can see someone you want, then get to know them, then learn to love them. With time, and understanding. Unless it’s not a good pairing. Then, oh well.
I have to disagree with this. Thinking someone is pretty isn’t always lust. I know I can tell the difference when I’m interested in someone solely for how they look, and when a girl’s looks just strikes me as something special.
Maybe there isn’t love at first sight, but I think you can fall in love with someone from the first time you meet them.
I believe you’re destined to fall for at least one specific person. I think it would be hard to recognize them the first time, though.
Yes, e-j-e. I agree with the Doc here.
I agree that you can find someone aestheticly pleasing without feeling the need to bed them.
That’s not what she meant, though. She just meant you can be attracted to someone upon sight, but not in love with them.
It’s hard to say for sure, since I don’t really know what “true” love is being rather young at only 22, but I know I’ve felt something incredibly strong for someone after only spending a day with them. It’s something I can;t really explain, and I don’t know if it’s love, but it must be something.
Yes, I see what e-j-e is saying, but I still think there are times when we think we see beyond just the physical attraction, that we feel we see something more, for whatever reason.