Wow, there’s lotsa Christians on this board… not that anything’s wrong with that. Someone should do a P. Planet census poll…
I’m supposed to be a Buddhist/Taoist who’s really an Agnostic. My mum especially is a ‘traditional’ Chinese who at least tries to make a trip to the temple every few months, usually dragging my reluctant siblings and I along. I don’t know how to do Buddhist chants and all that, so I just pray in English (in a conversational manner). I’m sure the Taoist gods know all languages. And besides, if God is everywhere, why must we only pray in a temple?
I read ‘Buddha in your backpack’ to see what Buddhism’s all about, and basically it’s just letting go of all material desires. Once you are free of all these ‘wants’ and ‘must-haves’, you’re “liberated from any cravings and attachments to worldly pleasures of all kinds”. It’s basically the ultimate solution to all human suffering.
I also don’t exactly buy the concept of worshipping the Buddha or other deities, not because I’m not devout or anything, but because Buddha himself wishes not to be revered. He was an ordinary man after all, a prince in fact.
I remember this story about the famous Chinese Ch’an master, Lin-chi I-hsüan, who even advises that if you meet the Buddha, you should kill him. Yup, that’s right. He even ascribes to killing our parents and teachers too. But far from suggesting we should become crazed mass murderers, his intention was to shock us into realizing that we ourselves are (or will become) Buddhas, parents, teachers and so on, and that we had no need to depend upon, mistakenly objectify, or inordinately revere figures external to ourselves.
Just a little insight into Buddhism. Taoism is much more complicated, so I won’t go there.
By the way, I share the same birthday (the 18th day of every month) as one of the Chinese deities, Guan Yin, so apparently she’s my ‘fairy godmother’, if you will.