Yeah my dad is probably older than the dads of almost everyone else on this forum…but not only because I’m older than the average age of people on this forum but also because my dad was over 40 when he had me(and I’m his oldest child, I have a sister who’s 3 years younger than me). My mother isn’t exactly young either. She was born in 1949. So both of my parents were born in the 1940’s.
My parent’s had me and my brothers late too. They were married for 6 years before my brother was born in 1987. They didn’t have any insurence so they waited. They got married on Febuary 7th 1981.
They’re both high achievers/workaholics in a sense…especially my mother…when she had to leave her job to look after my sister and I when we were little for a while they had to hire 2 people to do the amount of work she would do at that company. o_o
Currently my father still works even though he’s almost 70(and he has a job in a high position). My mom had no choice but to retire late last year due to a disability she has…the fact that she kept working as long as she did with the disability was pretty amazing because most people would have left long before her I think. Even now she still tries to do things herself without asking for help even though it’s dangerous to her health for her to do certain things herself. I offer to help but I can only help her when she tells me what she needs(because it’s not like I’m psychic after all) and I still catch her trying to do a lot of things herself when she shouldn’t be doing them anymore.
Sometimes I don’t like having parents that are so successful…puts so much pressure on me. My mother would constantly judge me over the years, nothing was ever good enough for her no matter what I did. It’s just the way she is though. I won’t get into it much because that all goes into a totally different topic.